How to Tie a Bow Tie – Step-by-Step Guide for Beginners

Henry Bucks August 05, 2025
How to Tie a Bow Tie – Step-by-Step Guide for Beginners - Henry Bucks

Key Takeaways 

  • Tying a Bow Tie: Follow our fool-proof 7-step process for the perfect look. Remember to make the knot snug but comfortable. Over-tightening ruins the shape. 

  • Professional Styling Advice: Visit the Henry Bucks flagship store in Melbourne for one-on-one assistance and personal styling service.  

Mastering the art of tying a bow tie might seem daunting. But it’s the key to elevating your attire and creating a classic look. This step-by-step guide explains exactly how to tie a bow tie, so you can dress to impress at your next formal event.    


Why Learn to Tie a Bow Tie? 

Flawlessly tying a bow tie is one of the best ways to set your style apart and make a lasting impression. Here's why it’s worth the effort.  

  • Adds Character and Class: There's a subtle charm to a self-tied bow tie that just looks more elegant and adds a personal touch. 

  • The Right Choice for Big Events: For weddings, black-tie galas, or any formal event, a self-tied bow tie makes a sleek and polished impression. 

  • It's Just More Authentic: Taking the time to learn how to tie a bow tie shows a genuine appreciation for classic style. It's an authentic touch that a pre-tied bow tie can't always match.  


What You’ll Need to Get Started 

Tying a bow tie is pretty straightforward once you know the steps, and you won't need much. Here's what to gather: 

  • A mirror: This is your best friend for seeing what you're doing from all angles. 

  • Patience: Especially if it's your first time, remember it's a skill you'll build. Don't worry if it's not perfect right away! 


Step-by-Step Instructions on How to Tie a Bow Tie 

Alright, let's get down to tying a bow tie. It might feel a bit challenging at first, but with a bit of practice, you'll be a pro. Just take it one step at a time! 

Step 1: Start with the bow tie around your neck 

First things first, drape the bow tie around your neck, making sure one end is slightly longer than the other. Usually, having the right side about 1.5 to 2 inches longer works well. The key here is to make sure it's lying flat and comfortably against your collar – no twists! 

Step 2: Cross the longer end over the shorter end 

Now, take that longer end (which should be on your right) and cross it over the shorter end (on your left), right near your neck. This is the very start of your knot. 

Step 3: Pull the long end under and up through the neck loop 

Next, bring that longer end behind the shorter one, threading it up through the loop you've created around your neck. Pull it through snugly, but don't choke yourself! You want it comfortable enough to breathe. 

Step 4: Form the bow shape with the shorter end 

Time to create the first half of your bow. Take the shorter end and fold it horizontally. This will form one of the "wings" or the front shape of your bow tie. Hold this neat little bow shape right at the center of your neck. 

Step 5: Drape the longer end over the bow shape 

With your first bow shape held in place, bring that longer end straight down over the very centre of it. This will create a crucial bridge across your initial fold. 

Step 6: Pinch and fold to create the back of the bow 

Now for the tricky bit, but you've got this! Take the hanging longer end, fold it back towards your chest, and pinch that fold to create the back loop of the bow. You should see a small hole or gap right behind the bow shape you're holding. This is where the magic happens. 

Step 7: Adjust until symmetrical 

Almost there! Carefully thread that folded end of the longer side through the hole you just created behind the bow. Then, give both sides a gentle pull and adjust until your bow is looking balanced, symmetrical, and perfectly neat. Remember, a little asymmetry gives it character – it shouldn't look machine-perfect. 

Want a hands-on demo to perfect your tying a bow tie skills? Visit our Henry Bucks flagship store in Melbourne or book a personalised styling appointment for expert guidance. 


Self-Tie vs. Pre-Tied: What’s the Difference? 

When choosing a bow tie, you have two main options: 

  • Self-Tie: This is the authentic, traditional choice. It requires tying the bow tie yourself, creating a unique, subtly imperfect knot that shows off real character and sophistication. 

  • Pre-Tied: Designed for convenience, with a consistent, perfectly symmetrical look. They're ideal if you prefer effortless neatness without learning how to tie a bow tie. 

No matter your preference, you’ll find the perfect bow tie at Henry Bucks. Consider the Eton Ready-Tied Satin Bow Tie or the refined Seidensticker Silk Bow Tie for a premium-quality, budget-friendly solution. 


Style Tips: Wearing a Bow Tie with Confidence 

Now that you've mastered tying a bow tie, here's how to wear it for a flawless look. 

  1. Nail the Foundations: Pair your bow tie with a crisp tuxedo shirt and a well-tailored formal suit or blazer for a sharp, sophisticated appearance. 

  1. Add a Pocket Square: Complement your bow tie with a pocket square. Choose plain white silk for classic elegance, or a patterned/coloured one for personality. 

  1. Mind the Details: Select cufflinks matching your outfit's metal accents. Consider a subtle fragrance for a refined impression. 

  1. Polish Your Shoes: Ensure your shoes are impeccably polished and occasion-appropriate; patent leather is ideal for formal events. 

  1. Experiment with Texture: Don't shy away from different fabrics. Velvet bow ties add warmth, while silk offers classic shine and luxury. 

Find the complete list of styling tips from our experts in The Ultimate Guide to Men’s Formal Wear. 


5 Common Mistakes to Avoid 

Even with the perfect bow tie, a few common missteps can detract from your desired look. Here’s what to steer clear of. 

  1. Wrong Size: Ensure your bow tie fits your face and collar size. Disproportionate sizes look off. 

  1. Poorly Tied: If self-tying a bow tie, practice for a balanced, symmetrical knot, avoiding overly tight, loose, or uneven results. 

  1. Mismatched Collar: Bow ties work best with wingtip or spread collars. Avoid narrow styles that crowd the tie. 

  1. Clashing Patterns or Colours: Your bow tie should complement your shirt and suit; too many competing patterns create a busy look. 

  1. Low-Quality Fabric: Stiff or cheap fabric makes tying a bow tie difficult and drapes poorly. Invest in quality silk or velvet. 

 

Final Thoughts: Master the Art of the Bow Tie 

Learning how to tie a bow tie isn't just about fashion - it's an investment in your personal style and elevates your entire formal look. Remember, the ritual of tying a bow tie makes it uniquely yours, and with a little practice, you'll perfect it. Ready to put your new skill to use? Explore the Henry Bucks collection of bow ties today and visit our iconic Melbourne store for a personal styling appointment and expert advice.